Linda:
Session request form
Please Install Yahoo Instant Messenger or ICQ Pro BEFORE
filling out the form
I file requests by Yahoo or ICQ nickname
If a form does not have an Yahoo ID or ICQ nickname and number,
it gets thrown into The Pile.
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| Your E-mail Address: |
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| Your Name: |
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| What is your
age? |
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| What is your
birthday? (optional) |
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| What is your
gender: |
Male
Female
Transgendered
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| What is your
education: |
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| What is your
occupation? |
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What state/province are
you in?
(or country if outside of North America)
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| What time zone
are you in? (I am in EST) |
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CURRENT
SITUATION
Please
describe your current situation, and why that leads you to request
a session
EXPERIENCE
Please describe
your previous experience of trance or therapy if you have
any (or other experience relevant to your request)
What worked best,
and what didn't seem to work so well?
Try the HypnoQuiz and report the
result (this link will open a new window)
GOAL
Please describe what
your goal is, i.e. what you want to get out of the sessions.
WHY
You've problaly had
this problem for a while, so why is it important enough for you
to want to change now?
PROOF
Please describe in
concrete observable terms how you will know when you've reached
your goal. How will you know you've gotten the result you wanted?
What will others observe of you once you have changed? (if you
want to stop doing something, or stop reacting in a certain way,
specify what you will be doing or how you'll be reacting after
the change)
The reason for this
question is, some people do therapy with vague goals, get vague
results, and don't know when to stop. If you can't imagine concretely
what you'll be like after the change, that means your goal was
too vague. On the other hand, if you have concrete goal, we'll
be able to judge your progress by your answer here.
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How do you feel about
letting go and allowing someone else be in charge for a short
time.?
No problem, I can easily let someone else take over for a while
I can let someone else be in charge for a while if there's a good
reason
I'd really rather be in control. I find it difficult to let go.
I need to always be in total control of what's going on. I
never let go.
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Please describe your ideal therapist / counselor / guide. What
kind of person are you looking for? Someone serious? Humorous? Detached?
Empathic?
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Describe the limitations you want on your requests:
- Limits, things
you don't want
- Phobias or allergies you may have
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| Are you living
with other people? |
Yes
No |
| Do you have
children or other dependants who might need your immediate attention
during a session ? |
Yes
No |
| Do you currently
have a sexual partner or spouse ? |
Yes
No |
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Where did you hear about
this website ?
(if you did a search on search engines, I would like to know what
you wrote in the search box to find me)
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What can you afford
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Regular in person sessions
(first session must be online or by phone to prove you are serious)
Occasional in person sessions
Regular phone sessions
Occasional phone sessions
Regular online sessions
Occasional online sessions
Just one session if I save up
I can't afford anything... pretty please?
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What is your wish?
(the brief version of your request)
Session extension
Especially during the first
session, the end of the hour may come at a critical moment, and it
would be better to continue a bit longer for better results. If you're
in trance at that time, you probably won't be in a state to decide
objectively wether to prolong the session.
Knowing you would pay for
additional time after the session is done, how do you feel about the
session being extended ?
I don't want my session prolonged without being awakened and asked
first
I agree that my session can be prolonged by 15 minutes
I agree that my session can be prolonged by 30 minutes
I agree that my session can be prolonged by 60 minutes
I agree that my session can be prolonged by as much as seems necessary.
Online Chats software
is my Yahoo Instant Messenger ID (preferred)
is my MSN Messenger / Windows Messenger screen name
are my ICQ name and number (Put the name AND the number)
is my AOL Instant Messgenger (AIM) screen name
are my IRC nick and network
The operating software
on my computer is
(WinXP, NT, WinME, Win98, Win95, Win3.1, MacOS, Linux,...)
What are your hours of
availability for the next 7 days?
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If you have not filled
out the Situation, Goal and Proof, I will ask you to fill out the
form again. Please do it right the first time.
It is better to write
more than not enough.
By clicking here, I freely
agree to have the changework done as requested by Linda. I understand
what that implies, and I have read the disclaimer.
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